So what do you want?

So what do you want?

Okay so I talked about what you should bring table and all the wonderful things that you need to be, but I think it is equally important to figure what you want when it comes to values and morals in mate. Sure you have the “it would be nice list” but what are the deal breakers?

Though you are probably sick of reading list, I am obsessed with making them to so deal with it!

What I need...

§ Someone who has a strong religious and theological background.
§ Values family life and enjoys it
§ Isn’t materialistic and wants to teach our children what is important in life
§ Supports my views on corporal punishment
§ Wants a big family (3-5 children)
§ Regardless of their political views, support mine and my activitism
§ Believes in being the spiritual head of the home and is active in the church
§ Believes in drinking very moderately and has a wine only policy within the home
§ Knows how to argue and never resorts to excessive swearing or inappropriate name calling in an argument (emotional abuse is NEVER okay)
§ Can or learns how to communicate…no passive/aggressive behavior
§ Believes in having quality couple time, but still has a life of his own and (I think it is important for both people to maintain individual identities)